Originally Posted by polarbear
Another question for you - are you recording your IEP team meetings?

This is a great question. For us, putting the recorder on the table, turning it on, and saying innocuously, "oh, it's so hard for us to take notes and think at the same time; would it be OK if we record?" was very useful. It made people instantly MUCH more polite and civil. It did not solve everything, but it took the edge off.

Feeling for you,
DeeDee