Yes. This is why I am always lurking on this site, because it is so comforting to know there are people out there who feel the same way.

Even my DS6 struggles sometimes with homework because the answer is so obvious to him that it couldn't possibly be the RIGHT answer, could it? So he spins his mental wheels looking for something meaningful. Major flashback.

I wish I knew how to help my kids with that. I wish I knew how to help myself with that. I still struggle in meetings.