Your last post rang minor alarm bells for me about girls with aspergers - it was the "more interested in setting up play than the actual playing", particularly in combination with wanting to play her games her way... I have a girl with Aspergers and she doesn't play "normally" and it has caused some problems.
I have wondered about aspergers before, even more so when she was younger. She seemed to grow out of many of her quirks/concerning behaviors. Since finding out she was HG I then just chalked it up to her LOG. Also, her WISC results are the opposite of what I have read are typical for aspergers. Her VCI was 124 and PRI was 151.
So I'm still torn as to what is the real issue. She is definitely different than the average kid, question is what is the reason.
