I was going to ask op the same thing, how she thinks her dad is pg and her son is on the mg/hg border, but maybe she's the same and didn't show as well in "the shadow" of a pg parent (who thinks a level 3 granchild is not gifted). I didn't want to say so because I didn't want to minimize her reality if her perception is correct. I'm sure that line of thinking has already been considered and she has been here long enough to have read about imposter syndrome already. My mom told me one that she was scared when I was nine and she realized I was smarter than her. Now that I am grown she is able to say the words "I was a very good mother." Mothering is about commitment not necessarily about inate ability, imo. hth

Youth lives by personality, age lives by calculation. -- Aristotle on a calendar