Honestly, I'm not sure where my IQ lies. I do know in elementary, I sat alone with my desk in the corner working alone. Yet, I more knew how to get around working hard- I just memorized everything. I do enjoy interesting topics/ conversation. Yet, with 2 young boys and keeping them busy as they require a lot from me; I certainly am not able to keep up with books and interests I have.
I do worry if I am "good enough" and "intelligent enough" to stimulate both my boys- with ds6 labeled gifted. He is nothing like me in how he learns or how he thinks. Yet, hopefully- at least for now, as long as I provide opportunities and resources; it will be enough.
I truly hope you don't feel excluded. I don't think that is anyone's intent. I have read some threads that didn't interest me as much, but others I was grateful to have come across. (I am not a "word" girl as I say, but I am happy to learn new words.) I do think everyone here has the right interest in mind and does not intend to seem exclusive.
One other thought, trust your gut. You know your child better than anyone!
