ps - I hadn't read your reply to Dude when I posted. A few more thoughts based on that - first, you can always reschedule. They might tell you you can't, but you can. However, since the dysgraphia eval is through the school district, I would go tomorrow and not opt out - if she does bring up the eval, you'll want to put your thoughts into the discussion (I suspect). If she doesn't, at least the school will see you as supportive parents who are working together with the school. It's not a huge thing, and I think just you missing the meeting isn't a huge deal in and of itself, but since you are identifying yourself (to us) as the parent who's shouldering the bulk of the responsibility in meeting your ds' needs re the eval etc, I think it's important to be there at the meeting.
polarbear
