Thank you.
To all of you so far, thank you. It looks I have found a place where people understand what I'm going through and your advice is being listened to, considered, and even acted upon. Please keeping it coming!

You all won't mind if I stick around, right? (though I may mostly lurk) I'm reading through other posts and seeing so many of you going through the same stuff, seeing the same things, and am learning how you deal with some of the same problems.