In what way is school great? It doesn't sound it, honestly, given that you seem to have had bad experiences with two teachers and no good ones to balance. You mentioned science and Spanish in K, I think, and lots of gifted kids, but if yours is miserable, what are those things worth? In your place I might try once more with the Head, but that meeting would be about "tell me why I shouldn't remove my child". A school can be great with other people's kids, but if it won't see yours...

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