People sometimes laugh at me for this, but I have gotten into the habit of telling my kids to "stay where you can see me" instead of "stay where I can see you". People will say I misspoke, but I said exactly what I meant because when ODS was younger I realized, he has no idea whether I can see him or not, only whether he can see me! Sometimes we say things to kids assuming they have the same frame of reference that we do, but of course they don't.