Thankx for the resopnce, however I don't think its so much a tension issue then it is a control thing on her part. When she doesn't get what she wants no matter what it is she melts down, same at home. We can't even open the door before her without her melting down.
I tried a sticker sheet today for a " reward" and it went better but still melted down cause she wanted to pass out papers and I did it first. I let her do the rest of her friends and she threw the papers at me so I just finished it and that made her more bad. I did talk to after her melt down and told her that its ok to get mad but its not ok to act this way. She says " ok" to me everytime but still melts down when its not her way. Same way at home.
