ok, im new so not sure if this was the right palce but this is all I could find. I have a four year old that has HUGE temper tantrums all the time. It could be over a simple "no," wanting something and we tell her no, the biggest is when we are at daycare and she melts down over not getting her way, not allowing other friends help me, or when I ask someone to be the leader, or the class helper...again another melt down. Im her teacher in her room and it she melts down all the time but when there is a different teacher in there she is as good as gold. Yes, i know shes probably testing me or being that Im her mom she can get away with it. Well, she wrong! We have tried talking to her, taking this away, time out. Nothing is working. Please Help!