I love you guys!! Thanks for all the great responses.
I'm so sorry for my terrible and misleading title for this thread. I wanted to have the title be "probably" no school will work, or something similar... but I ran into the issue of character limits! So it was a terrible choice of titles that I landed on, and making it sound like the psych was far more harsh and definitive than what she was in her statements.
Oh, and polarbear... just to touch on something you mentioned. This is actually my son's second preschool. So the new one we are starting in the fall will be his third.
I don't know if I think DS is PG. I really don't. Our DD seems to be obviously going that way. I've read the Ruf's book on levels of giftedness, and DS definitely fits the descriptions of level 5 kids - meeting or exceeding the milestones indicated in that book for other level 5 kids. But I really don't feel I (or anyone) can say how gifted he is at this point. He's still just way too young. I'm sure many people who are greater experts than me would disagree, but from what I understand I don't feel even an IQ test would be definitive at this age. He's certainly highly gifted, but it is way too early to say much more IMHO --- and I'd say the same for any kid his age.
