Well, if anyone wants to check, the toolboxes actually have a message on the home screen if your child is an award winner. The good news is that ds10 did qualify... the bad news is that the graduation is still the same day (June 9th).
We finally got ds11's SAT scores, too. He took them through our school district's "SAT on campus," not NUMATS, and I honestly think it was the best of both worlds... he scored well enough to "wow" us (610 CR and 590 M, no writing) but not, at least looking at last year's scores, well enough to have qualified for the ceremony if he had taken it through NUMATS. So, at least I don't have to feel bad for him, lol....
Still debating whether to show ds10 the invitation when it comes.