Originally Posted by Dude
A quick trip to grandma's in my family was a trigger for chaos. DD would find out her normal boundaries didn't apply there, so she'd come home and check her boundaries again. My MIL was convinced we were traumatizing DD by putting her on timeouts at such an early age.

I've got MIL within walking distance. About 0.7 miles.

In my world, "sending you to live with grandma" is the gravest threat possible since the normal boundaries don't apply. She's convinced we are far too permissive.