If I imagine how the world must look, sound, smell and feel to him and imagine what his body is telling him to do about it, it made alot of his behaviors alot more comprehensible.
YES!! The more I talk about it, think about it and read about it, the more I understand a LOT of his behaviors. I'm going to call his Ped tomorrow to see if she can recommend a good OT to visit.
His IEP originally was just for Gifted & ADHD, but the more we talked about things, the more the other things came out = specifically the mention of SPD. I hadn't even really heard of it until then.
Thank you all, so very much, again, for your help.