I can't help but feeling that no matter how hard she works or how hard she tries she will keep bumping into a brick wall.
May be. In which case you will help her learn to get over/under/around the wall. She has lots of talents and there will be opportunities to use them; disabilities make things harder; but she will find a way.
Just came from visiting school for a Thanksgiving event and several people stopped me to ask if I was ok. Apparently I looked "worried". Gee... I wonder why that would be ... {big sigh}...
Yeah, I look that way a lot too. People notice.
I think you're doing the right thing by pursuing further testing. Gather all the information, and then you'll turn that information into a plan, and then you'll follow the plan. (That reduces my stress, having a plan.)
Have you done a comprehensive vision exam lately? The headaches make me ask... though it does sound like stress. Do the teachers have information to offer you about what situations trigger the headaches?
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