ITA with jack's mom about asking specific questions. Did you have art? What did you make in art? Did your teacher read a story to you? What was it about? Who did you play with at recess? What did you play?
But I don't bombard them all at once either I just sprinkle the questions through the rest of our day. I have also found bedtime to be a good time for real conversation and my ODS will tell me about things he is worried or upset about then.
And Astucky86, I wouldn't worry yet about your DS not being ready for kinder socially. There is still time. Even if he is going next fall, you will be amazed at how much growth occurs in one year. MY 2nd DS, now 5 and in kinder, was alot like yours up until about 4 1/2 and then suddenly he got a lot less clingy and quiet in public. He is still on the quiet side, but is doing fine in kinder.
