Originally Posted by Ametrine
We have our son in ... preschool.
He's there mainly ... to learn to listen to other adults.

she "quizzed" him on it

he just stood there.

Given my own son's experience of deeply resenting spending hours and hours of time with preschool teachers who treated him as though he was incapable of doing the simplest tasks, and expected him to be 'thrilled' with 'age-appropriate' investigation, I have to ask, do you really want him to 'learn' to 'listen' to adults who are so in the dark about who he is as a person?

I think he's already showing with his behavior that he has learned all he needs to learn about being unseen by important adults.

If you have to have him in preschool for family sanity or to earn a living, then do what you need to do. But if you are trying to teach him to get along with peer and take orders from adults, I advise to try to find mental-peers and adults who get him.

Love and More Love,
Grinity


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