My son also claims he doesn't know what he did at pre-school. It's difficult to get anything out of him about it at all. Also, when people ask him questions he often turns to me and says 'you say', even when it's something he is quite sure about.
2giftgirls, that's interesting about your daughter not wanting to be noticed because I've recently realised that I am quite like that myself. I am also not very forthcoming unless I know people very well and I've had colleagues comment on how polite and reserved I was when they first knew me. I don't think they are saying I've become ruder though.
