How and when did you discuss with your gifties the whole sex thing?
How babies are made, when she was just over 3, because it had some relevance to her life. She wasn't made in the traditional way, so I think we didn't get to p-in-v until she got It's Not the Stork, and that was when she was 6.5yo.
I don't think that a 4yo is too young. Kids just gloss over a lot of stuff they aren't ready for. DD (who thinks everything sexual is the most disgusting thing she's ever heard) has only in the last 6 months started saying "ewww" to sexual comments on TV / in movies, even though she's been exposed to them longer than that.
