3.)I love writing. I love working on my sites. I see that this is going be a constant source of frustration for me until all my babies are somewhat independent. I can just give it all up and be a dedicated mommy and do only that, but the writing has kept me sane. You guys have seen my posts before, so you know I am feeling a little in-sane.
**patting you on the back in understanding sympathy**
I'm an artist who works with media not safe around children. When our son was born, he took so much of my energy, that it was like a drain on my creative force. It has only been in the last year I've felt my strength come back and am starting to create again. I was severely depressed after the birth of DS and I believe much of it was caused by that part of my life being pushed off my plate.
We have decided DS is to be an only child and have taken medical steps to do our best to ensure that.
Whatever you decide is the best gap, probably is...for you and your family.