Jack's mom,
I guess I was going by what I thought was the typical cut-off of 130? We had her tested b/c if we move soon I was contemplating asking for early entrance to K.
Re: gymnastics--it isn't a team, it is just a class once/week and then they guilt the parents into paying $50 for a trophy/t-shirt/gym bag and they did this little 30 minute demonstration that was very low key. It is actually no pressure, and if anything too easy for her.
Yes, we do continue to be very positive about her appearance. That is wonderful about your son. My dd7 has Down syndrome so we do a lot of talking about differences here. I love the self-portrait story!