I know they say they won't do an official IEP, but can you give them a week to 10 days to physically show you the enrichment materials and to come up with a daily or weekly schedule of how they will enrich, what time will be set aside during the daily schedule, and what instruction she will be given? After your meeting with them, I would write them a letter thanking them for the meeting, summarizing what you understand their position to be, and formally asking for this information (with the deadline included). If they don't do this, then I, personally, would absolutely be going to the board. although it would be a shame if it had to get to that. If they do what you ask, then I would write another letter, reiterating the schedule and material that they have provided for you so that you will then have an written account of their offer.
Please let us know how the meeting goes!
