Ok...I am feeling a bit jealous of all the little ones on this board who seem to have these great parents advocating for them. I am specifically talking about the little ones. The toddlers. The toddlers who are already in school and excelling. They are being recognized and accelerated.
Admittedly I have a teenager so it isn't like I read every thread about toddlers or preschoolers, but I haven't seen a lot about two year olds being "recognized and accelerated." So, I guess the place I'd start is with a reality check. Is reading this board promoting feelings of insecurity? I've seen that crop up on gifted lists over and over again. If it makes you feel worse to read whatever list or board it is probably not a good fit for the place you are at right now.
