She's probably just a bit perfectionist as you say, which wouldn't be out of place for an intelligent child.
I am starting the think that some Gifties are born perfectionistic, some are created perfectionist through a particular style of parenting, or by imitating their perfectionistic parents and some are created perfectionist through lack of significant learning time in the company of true peers. I'd hate to assume that because many gifties are perfectionistic, that it is an unavoidable outcome or all or most of them.
Love and More Love,
Grinity
