Thanks for the kind replies, I realize I probably sounded a bit crazy.
Onthegomom-it was very helpful to hear that it took you 2 years to find the right school...for some reason I have been feeling like it's urgent I find the right school, immediately. It has been hard to find the right afterschool enrichment programs, DD is very intense and it has to be the right fit. We are only doing gymnastics right now. I plan on looking into piano lessons soon. As for homeschooling, I don't know enough about it, I will have to look into it.
Catalana-we are stunned by her scores, I keep thinking "nah, that can't be right."
But I know that thinking that doesn't help my daughter. I feel overwhelmed, I don't want to fail her, I want to be able to provide her with what she needs educationally and I worry that her choices will be severely limited if we can't afford private school.
Dazed&Confuzed- she did not have achievement testing, we will look into that, thank you.