MsFriz-Yes that is exactly what I am thinking and ideally what I want for her education. I am just not sure how to find/create that. I watch her struggle with anxiety and perfectionism when faced with something she doesn't know right away or resist something when she 'thinks' it will be difficult. Which is completely ironic because she does so many things that actually are difficult, like doing 1000 piece puzzles at the age of 5. I know she has not been challenged much at school this year but she has been happy so I haven't done anything about it. Maybe that was a mistake, I will have to work on that.