I too have just entered this realm. It feels as if it's you against the school. I suggest gettimg him tested asap so you are fully informed. There is also alot of other information about asynochoris(Sic) child who is at all different levels of developement emotionally, socially and academically. dabrowski's oversensitivities and sensory processing issues( what i think my son is dealing with)

My son is exhibiting these same characteristics so face it now so you know the path to take.