Also he is social but not actually seeking approval from the adults, just from the kids
Ut Oh!
Would you describe DS4 as flexible? if not, pull up a chair, and I'll tell you a story.
This sounds like my DS13, who is an INTP or INTJ. It's hard to tell when they are so young. But the take home message is this: If you have a gifted child (especially a boy) who is social, and not approval seeking, be sure sure sure to get them in a good academic fit situation, because they will not suffer quietly! They also have a tendency to enjoy 'stirring things up' inside the classroom if aren't fully engaged and feeling like they have something to gain by compiling with the Adults.
Well, that's what happened in our house, anyway!
Smiles,
Grinity (ENTP, and how!)
