thanks for the link. I tried it for DS4 but when I read the questions, I was a little confused as DS4's personality has significantly evolved over time. When he was three, he was a bit shy, more of the observer type. He still oberserves but not for that long, basically he has just become more confident in his ability to handle new situations. Also he is social but not actually seeking approval from the adults, just from the kids and that too not from all the kids, just from those he is friends with so I do not know where he fits. Anyways... just that I found it difficult to answer many questions.