Hi Dottie,
No dear, it's not your own guilt, although it's worthwhile to journal or share or whatever about whatever guilt you do have.
I'm sure that she has a memory of this, although she probably isn't verbally aware of it. What does she say when you ask her? Does this relate at all to the other thread?
Personally I believe that everyone remembers everything that has ever happened to them, but that most of the time it's "lost on the hard disk." Memories that came in before much language are tough to locate, but when you watch movies of dogs who find their way home when the family moves across the U.S., or ET who finally gets to go home, does she cry more than the others? That's a way to "work on" those early hurts.
((shrug))
My view anyway....
Trinity
