I guess, I was referring to our next well visit. Sorry i forgot to mention that.
Part of the issue is that MIL will say something like that and then it in turn freaks out my husband and he starts second guessing our parenting style.
I also wanted to mention that we've been dealing with some fear problems with her and it was another thing we were thinking of talking about the pediatrician went. She's had a lot of separation anxiety. She'll start crying if I even mention "I'm going to work" or if my husband is wearing his work clothes. She also freaked out this weekend over a toy and didn't even want to be in the same room where she first saw it because she got so scared. I know many kids go through separation anxiety but I wonder if part of this is exacerbated by her understanding some of the things we're saying and doing.
