wow... that made me cry a little.....

You are second guessing yourself.... I do it all the time!

But my son and I have a saying when we second guess ourselves, "But ya didn't Blanch, ya didn't." You know, the line from "Whatever Happened to baby Jane"

Don't second guess, you did what was right at the time. This isn't easy. There is no real guide book. Personally, I think you gave your daughter a great education.