"If you run into a wall, don't turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it."
Michael Jordan

Throwing out some ideas to help you find a way over, through or around this wall.

Originally Posted by elh
Outside of school, he also has little to no interest in any activities that take attention to detail or effort.. He won�t do pleasure reading, fun math or any kind of writing.
What kind of things do interest him?

Originally Posted by elh
I have to make him do his homework, but I�m to the point of dreading to see him get off the bus in the afternoons.

I'd focus my efforts on changing this. There's a quote I've been trying to put into practice since reading Gordon Nuefeld's Hold Onto Your Kids. He talks about "connection before direction."

Can you focus on making a strong connection with your son when he gets off the bus? I'd put aside the homework issue until after this has been accomplished.

Glad you're not giving up!