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good luck with the meeting...these things are scary....sometimes they will be right on target and sometimes they are just plain wrong. If they think something is wrong, agree that you are concerned and ask them to do the IQ/achievment testing to check. Find out the name of any test they plan to use. Bring a notebook and take lots of notes. Make a list of pamper things to do for yourself when you get home, and then do them - these meetings can be very stressful.
Best Wishes,
trin

Here is the Ruf Levels Link
Originally Posted by Trinity
And another Dr. Ruf link to help you estimate your child's level of giftedness. The checklists start about halfway down the page.
http://www.educationaloptions.com/levels_giftedness.htm

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