Thank you all, I appreciate it. I know I have so much to learn still.
The tester did mention Davidson (both as a possible school and the young scholar thing). I've only just begun looking at the scholar program and what immediately appealed to me was the opportunity for resources, consulting, and parents that know what they're doing more than we do at the moment.
At the risk of sounding like a broken record, how much chance is there this was a falsely elevated score somehow? The tester is top notch, but as I look at school programs, some of which have a 145 IQ prereq, I can't shake the worry that I'd be setting her up for failure somehow. It seems so daunting, like they'll expect 4.5 gpa and 3 hrs of homework for a first grader, lol. (catastrophize much? lol) I've long assumed Montessori would be the answer for her, whether gifted or ADHD or 2E, b/c you work at your own pace. The tester has raised the possible concern that the 3 yr range may not be enough for her though, particularly when she's in the oldest age group as she is now in kindergarten.
