Hello and welcome!
I'm sure you'll find lots of advice here to help you on your journey. IMO, it is helpful to remember that your DD is the same DD she was a week ago, you just have more insight into something that MAY be impacting some aspects of her growth and development. My DD is also PG and that influenced some of our decision making (like when we were moving, we made sure that there were multiple school options in the new place), but not others (our DD was never allowed to read age inappropriate (by our standards) books--we pre-read all of them for a long time. We found that knowing our DD was PG helped us advocated for her, but did not make the decision for us. We found that it was important to remember that although each child is different, even PG kiddos will have strengths and weaknesses and need opportunities to learn and grow in both aspects. Your DD may excel at origami and yet still need to learn to tie her shoes.
Best wishes!
