Update for anyone that is curious.
Had our 10 minutes with her teachers earlier this week and magically all of her problems were fixed in the week between talking to the resource teacher and the interview. Her teachers went on and on about how she was now finishing all of her work and everything was perfect now. They showed me the folder of more advanced math that had been put together for her (and the 5 other mathematicians that also need extra). They even went out of their way to point out that it had 2 digit math in it and I managed to keep a straight face and thank them. I suspect it won't really be enough to appease DD but at least they are trying something. They are willing to do up an IEP in the new year.
Having one 2e kid is enough to make one paranoid
Thanks for the info, hopefully I'll be able to avoid using it a little while longer.
