Thanks ndw and aeh. My partner and I are also leaning toward moving her on. So unless the psychologist raises some major, as of yet unconsidered, issue tomorrow, I think we will commit to that decision and make ourselves positive about it. You are right ndw, there is no point stressing over the decision indefinitely. I just hadn't realised we had to make a final decision this early in the year. But I guess that is for the best too, since we can put our energy into supporting the decision we make rather than worrying about what to do.
