How old was your DC when they memorized the multiplication table?
I understand its highly dependent on the individual but I'm wondering if 6 years is too young too start if they are not overly fascinated with numbers.

Her next step in math is to really memorize those numbers so we can move on to multi digit multiplication and long division and her learning style is not like my DS, who learned them pretty much effortlessly at 7.5 years. She is very much the opposite of him and detests repetitive rote learning.

She is very self directed and has issues with me teaching her so I don't want to set the explosives off, but on the other hand, she will likely be in 3rd grade math next year in school and fast recall will be expected.

Can you direct me to any sites, games etc to help aid in memorizing these? TIA!