The only real difference that has struck me as more or less universal with HG+ kids is that an appeal to their rationality (when they are calm, that is) seems to be an approach that works. This is much more true than it (seemingly) is with more NT children.
Other than that, ITA with Dude-- it's a moving target.
Totally agree with this. Of course it doesn't make it easier. I am learning to let go of my asian behavior expectations that I was brought up with..absolutely no back talk negotiations allowed.
Everyday I am shocked as to how effectively my HG DD6 can outsmart me when we are having our struggles. The last word from her is often leaves me thinking..well she has a point, or how on earth did she remember that??
