Just an update:
We visited the private school. It would be amazing for ds! Both dh and I really felt good about it! So, now we apply and hope and pray for the best!

Back up plan is homeschool, but I've done so much research and planning- thinking I'll atleast be able to use some of it as enrichment (if he gets in, which I don't see why he wouldn't).

Positive thoughts that we're on the right track though!