With everything I posted above said, we are not dealing with a recent diagnosis of a severe medical condition too.
So I do not want come across as trivializing the seriousness of your home situation. My mother died of an aneurism caused by complications around her Type1 diabetes 2 weeks after my third birthday so I do appreciate the criticality of this.
Management of the condition is far better now than it was then but even still I cannot fully comprehend what you and your family are dealing with.
Sending prayers and positive thoughts your way...
