I would write an e-mail using direct Montessori quotes to show the need for following the child etc.

I would, in the same missive, ask for exacts, and tell them it's to give your daughter hope that they, the school, and the adults in her life are working with her.

I really hope that you come right and that she can stay there - especially if she is happy there.

Mom to 3 gorgeous boys: Aiden (8), Nathan (7) and Dylan (4)