The neuropsych that DS saw was helpful, but wasn't really interested in both "e's" and didn't say much about the gifted part, other than he should have gifted programming due to his different learning style and should be at the correct level academically with accomodations made. I don't think he'd even see a kid like your DD if she hasn't had something like a TBI, autism-like symptoms, etc. So I can't really answer your question.

One thing he DID do that I appreciated was computerized testing for ADHD. He thought that DS has ADHD based on DS's very squirrely behavior but was able to rule that out as a diagnosis (for now) when DS did well on computerized testing. Once he was given actual tasks to do (even extremely boring ones like the long computer test) he settled down and focused. ADHD diagnoses can be so subjective and you need data from several different measuress. So many people don't bother to do this.