We had the day from hell today. I felt sick and had a headache, ds6 encropresis was playing up (4 changes of undies and trousers for heavens sake will it ever end) and they were both clingy and aguementative. It ended badly but the point I am trying to make is how stressed are you. You say you can't afford certain classes from next year, does this indicate major financial stress, or a health issue affecting work or ... My kids were hellish today because they knew I was partially absent and they wanted to be sure I didn't forget them if I had actively engaged in something with them I would have still felt dreadful but they may have been calmer.