Are there any local private pre-schools you can afford? Those are often a bit easier to test the waters with - you can often observe the classrooms, drop them off/pick them up when you want - which is good when trying to get them to adjust.
that would probably be a total disaster! I'm guessing he'd be kicked out right the first day! lol The public special ed preschool is most likely the only option since they would HAVE to work with him. He can't even stand to be at the library story time for more than 2 minutes. But does like going to a local play area ... kind of like a children's museum type of place where there isn't really any structure but he still gets the exposure to other adults and kids.
