No, no, not "yet another activity." "Another activity." Not to nitpick, but we are huge on free play here. DD takes no lessons at all, actually (may have gone overboard here) and is in only one very low-key school-year activity and a few after-school clubs (chess, art). Regardless, I actually don't want to get into "How can we give DD more autonomy?" because that's something I am actively considering at all times and it would be repetitive to get into here when no one knows our parenting practices, so that part isn't really where I want the thread to go (she said as politely as possible).