Honestly, ABQmon, that's not it. What he wants is full-on follow-my-lead asttention. There's just not enought of that to make taking a little or giving a little meaningful. He wants 300% of what he gets, and needs about 200% of it.

I guess I kinda think most people for whom your approach works must somehow be doing a whole lot more than just that. I just don't know what, and I'm not sure even the people who do know what it is...


DS1: Hon, you already finished your homework
DS2: Quit it with the protesting already!