The Teachers aide said this was her common response to school work in the program and there seems to be a general opinion that she is just to young to do the academics.
I do agree to pull her really soon. I left my son in a situation where the teacher was irritated with him and it crushed his self esteem - I so regret my old perspective. Kids who are sensitive to what other's think will pick up this kind of thing.
As for not burning bridges, just agree that she is "too young" for the situation and say thanks! Do the good-bys at home with playdates. You can always ask DD what she wants onces she is safely home.
Best Wishes,
Grinity
